I made a lazy mistake on the subway a few weeks ago; I made eye contact with a panhandler walking through the train car asking for money. I was watching him and waiting to see how people responded to his requests and how they reacted to his advances. I was looking for Proxemic Pushes but as I got caught up watching, I also wasn’t disguising my interest. Inevitably, eye contact was made and the situation changed from Proxemic Pushes to a Proxemic Pull. I was watching him be Proxemically Pulled to me.